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WHERE ARE THE POTENTIAL WOMEN LEADERS OF THIS COUNTRY?

This is a publication written by Saminu Abass popularly known as Mr. Possible, the content creator at SABTrends’ Blog (www.sabtrends.com) edited by Adisat Aminat Olabisi also known as Prudence a law student of the prestigious Faculty of Law, Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU). This topic, “Where are the potential women leaders of this country?” is published to tackle the menace and ugly situation facing many potential ladies whom bright futures have been truncated.

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Women are simply adult female. Women as my people will say, they are salt, sugar and honey of this world. Where an association or group exists and no woman is found then such might be said to be incomplete. I adore women a lot because I have mother, sisters and friends as a woman. Woman, I define as a delicate part of human existence which must be treated with care. There is also a popular saying that goes thus; behind a successful man, there must be a woman which shows how powerful and important these women are. To become a woman, it has transformational stages which start from birth and ends with death. The chain of transformation changes gradually from being a girl child to be a lady and then womanhood. Succinctly put, (Girl -> Lady -> Woman)
However, these stages involve myriad of development, happenings, teachings and other things. If qualitative teachings and lessons of each step are being missed then there is surely going to be problems for such individual as well as the society. The first stage (girl child) is the stage where adequate and vital upbringing must be done by parents such as quality education, moral value, moral lessons and other teachings, this stage is very important and pertinent as any failure may cause a future problem for the child and the society at large.
In addition, the second stage is the transformation from girl to a lady. At this stage, the maturity senses and reasonings become their pride. This is a stage in which many ladies feel it is the time to enjoy their own lives. They believe it is the best moment and period of their lives because it is at this age that the beauty, blessings, endowment and other gifts given to them by God can be showcased. Contrary to the assumption of many ladies this stage is the most delicate period or stage of any lady’s life. Whoever misuses this golden period might have a negative life to live later as this is the adolescent period.
Thereafter, the stage of womanhood comes which is the aftermath of either a well brought up adolescent stage or otherwise. The question I ask myself every day is where are the potential women leader of this noble nation?
This question has been bothering my mind day in day out as a living soul on this earth. I contemplate whether or not we still have women leaders in this part of the world (Nigeria)? Are there still charismatic and prominent women to be called leaders?  The depreciation in the standard of women folks makes me doubt if today’s women can be potential leaders of tomorrow.
Notwithstanding, there is a woman leader I value and cherish not because of anything but for her milestone achievement irrespective of ‘gender favouritism’: She is Dr. Mrs. Okonjo Iweala, I may not like her but her achievement is something to be proud of as a Nigerian. Dr. Okonjo Iweala worked at International Monetary Fund as one of the key personnel in World Bank; although that is not what I really cherish about her.
The audacity and boldness she took then to contest to become the No 1 person in that institution but unfortunately she could not emerge as the President of International Monetary Fund. There are many other women in this country and other neighbouring countries which had shown that being a woman can never stop any milestone achievement you wish to attain. We are all proud of these women not because of anything but the achievements they have made.
It is a pity today; things have changed in the reverse order. As stated, if any of the above stages, is not well managed there is bound to be a problem. Many parents today have taken the caring of their female child as less important. The popular words they chant is; “live your life and let me live mine; I can’t die because of any child”. The rate at which ladies of nowadays are being maltreated is alarming. The improper and poorly-built background of these female children will surely have the effect on their future most likely negative impact.

Though there are still some of these ladies who are determined, focused and pursue their dreams, it is very saddened that 70% of them pursue a blank dream. My views will be analyzed below.

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Firstly, looking from the educational perspective, many ladies nowadays have slimed chances to further to tertiary education be it (University, Polytechnics, or Colleges of Education). I kept wondering why parents will deliberately deny their female children the opportunity to learn further and boost their bright future.
Though, some parents are unable and incapacitated to send their daughters to tertiary institutions as a result of poverty. Aside being poor, there are some parents who are financially average who can send their daughters to tertiary institutions despite the fact that those parents can afford the
continuity of the education of their daughters yet they refuse to thereby denying their daughters the opportunity to attend a higher institution.

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Perhaps, these parents have no faith in the future, no determination and think the current condition they are is permanent. A female child with this kind of parent suffers series of hardship ranging from maltreatment, lack quality education, psychological abuse, unwanted pregnancy and so on.
Furthermore, some sets of parents are serious and ready to finance their female child education but unfortunately these children lack serious and zeal to excel. Their lives end most time when they are impregnated.
Can we really say the world is going to an end? Though, many people say it is one of the signs of the last hours.  It is no more news that many ladies walk around naked and don’t even feel ashamed at all which means that sense of dignity and modesty is no more there. Since uncovering vital parts of their body is no more big deal then getting pregnant is also no big deal. It seems like a joke but it is not a joke at all. It is a pity that today even a 10 years old daughter can be impregnated. Their mode of dressing is nothing to write about to the extent that rape has become the order of the day because men can no longer hold themselves as a result of the free of charge nakedness they see every moment, the temptation has become unbearable although this is no license for them to showcase the beast in them the question is “who is to be blamed for the rape?”

Another unfortunate habit of these days is that these young ladies at even primary level have boyfriends. Let’s assume a young lady from the first set of parent discussed above has a boyfriend whose parents are rich then won’t he use the little amount as a prey to have sex with her? Another irritating one is that of an adult man at age of 40 or 50 raping young ladies for a 5 to 10 minutes satisfaction. Pitiable enough, I read a headline recently where a pastor of 50+ years said he only slept with a lady of age 13 just once not five times as claimed by the little lady. Can you imagine this? Where is the world going?

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Furthermore,
it is even unfortunate reading some headlines on Newspaper or Television that a
75 years old man raped a 10 years old lady, as a result of this, the rate at
which rape case is increasing calls for quick reaction. I always ask myself,
are these men not ashamed of themselves? Forceful sex, raping and other immoral
acts with young ladies all in the name of enjoying themselves for few minutes
thereby ruining the bright future of these ladies. I wish these men can come

I wish these men can come
back to their senses what if their sisters or daughters are being treated that
way would they be happy? I am very sure they will not be happy. For this
reason, it is high time they stopped dashing the hope of our potential women leaders
by impregnating them unlawfully. You might not know this, let me sound the
warning heavily on your hearing that, the wrath of Almighty God is upon whoever
engages in such activities.

 

No doubt about it, women are the salt and honey of the world but are these young beautiful ladies potential salt and honey of this universe? The answer is left for you my dear sisters, brothers, fathers and mothers reading this article. At the tender age of 20 you have already given birth to 2 children then what plan do you even have for yourself let alone the kids you forcefully and unlawfully called to this world untimely.

In those days, before you can even know the word ‘boyfriend’ you must have obtained your O’level certificate let alone having sex with opposite sex but the reverse is the case in this 21st century of ours. Where are we going in this country? I feel ashamed and sorry for these young ladies at that tender age moving around with pregnancy. You feel sorry for the parent of such daughter or the man who impregnated her.

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Furthermore,
I believe some measures can be put in place to correct this ugly situation but
the problem is that the society is even happy with these nonsensical
attitudes. Many parents will even say, this
is the period where anything can happen let these ladies enjoy and live their
lives
. I agree with them but a daughter with qualitative education, moral
teachings, and religious background will never be a mother of two children even
at secondary class level. It is pathetic! Many parents celebrate children day
but don’t really know the real meaning of such celebration. In my article
titled “The Nigerian Child, Hope For Tomorrow” You can read it to get more insight.

Your daughter is a special gift from God, a gift given to any parent as a joy. For this pertinent reason, the gift should not be rendered useless, misused, wasted or maltreated. A child should be given basic things to help her becomes something useful rather than become a liability in the society. It saddens my heart seeing many parents these days forgetting the blessed gifts given to them by Almighty God are special gifts, they don’t care about these special gifts anymore, as they go their ways their children also go other ways. Our daughters are precious, gold, diamond, special, unique, future and promising leaders of our society. Many daughters have been denied the opportunity, privilege, and right they deserved from their parents, society, and government at large. Reliance on government has not yielded anything good so it might just make things worse; therefore, parents as a primary, main or first teacher should take the caring and treatment of their daughters as a bundle.

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If necessary and basic things are being given by parents to their daughters then all the stated above ugly scenarios will become minimal. In other words, giving our daughters qualitative training makes them promising leaders of this society. I believe the aforementioned problems can be reduced or overcome if parents can take note of the following things;

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PEER GROUP

We all know that peer group plays a major role in influencing our children. Peer group is the number one influencer. They are even more important than the family. It is very pertinent for our parents to monitor the movement of their daughters, who are their friends? Are they responsible persons? Are they from a good family? All these and other things should be taken into cognizance.
Even if you have a strong built-up background for your daughter but if she mingles with irresponsible elements then the strong background becomes a weak one because she will be influenced. We have heard and seen it a lot of time a daughter of a rich parent moving around with harlot or thugs then what do you except such daughter, positive or negative influences? Study those friends your daughters move with. Are those friends agents that would destroy the bright plans you have for your daughter? Are those friends agent of help that are compatible with your daughter’s mission and her to make her ambition come into reality?

EDUCATION

It is also very pertinent to give your daughter sound and quality education. Spend whatsoever you have in the course of giving your daughter qualitative learning process. Take education as a priority for your daughter. It is a shame; many parents abort the dream of their daughters at a tender age by denying them proceeding further into secondary school let alone tertiary institutions. Never
deprive your daughter the right or opportunity to equip her with skills and knowledge.
However, if you think as a parent that you can’t afford to send your daughter to the tertiary institution at least secondary level education should be the minimum background for her and send her to any informal education (apprenticeship) to gain more skills. Education should not be only formal but also informal education is very important. No knowledge or skills acquired is a waste, kindly spend any dime on your daughter to give her the best you can. Note that, an idle hand is a devil’s workshop.

 BEHAVIOUR

As said earlier that peer group plays a major role in influencing our daughters. What peer group changes are the behaviour. A daughter with a good character can be changed if she mingles around with irresponsible friends. A saying goes thus; “bad company pollutes good habit” no matter on how better or beautiful your behaviour or character is, in as much as you fail to mingle with friends
whose behaviours or characters are compatible with yours automatically there is a problem.
Behaviour is not only with peer group but also towards other people in the society. Train
your daughter on to behave in the society; I believe the genesis of the behaviour of any daughter is from home. Our daughters start the learning process at home, whatever their parents exhibit at home will be part of them too. Many ladies today have taken the act of bleaching as the best way to beautify them all in the name civilization. Who told you black is not beauty? The best colour as far as I am concerned, black is the best colour. Sincerely speaking, many white men even cherish black race though some white nations feel somehow of our beautiful colour. Many young shall ladies think without bleaching you can’t be gorgeous and beautiful. Stop the act now, the
repercussion will be worse than you think. God who created you with your dark complexion knows that is the best colour for you.

 SOCIETAL LIVING

Societal living teaching is one of the trainings parent must give to our young lady. It is pertinent to teach them how to relate with people in the society, be it from the tribe or another tribe. Let them know we are the same; train them to see other people as their brothers and sisters. Teach them to desist from thinking of harming or disliking people around them.
Another pivotal thing to teach your daughter is respect; train your daughter to respect other people in the society. Our ladies of this 21st century have taken pride as the cloth to brag and disrespect people irrespective of the person’s age. Things go wrong today in the society is as a result of lack of respect in the society. Society can be changed starting from your home, train your daughter to respect any person she meets in her journey of life irrespective of such person age, tribe or personality. Respect, the only solution to the global’s problems or challenges.

 RELIGION

Religion is the bedrock of success in life. I believe religion is the basis of everything. All the afore-mentioned points above are embedded in any religion because religion teaches you how to live your life successfully. Religion tells you how to live in the society, how to relate to others and the way to behave. Train your daughter the religion you practice right from his/her tender age. Let your daughter knows the basis of your religion and the ‘do and don’t’ of Almighty God. If our daughters are being trained the basis of the religion from home we won’t have been experiencing those ugly scenarios.
Majority of these ladies don’t even realize that their deeds will be questioned by God in which they don’t even know there is reward for good deeds and punishment for wrong doing. Many ladies have taken sin as minor as anything, where is the fear of Almighty God? To our parent, train your daughter right from her tender age to refrain sinful acts. Another powerful tool many parents have failed to train these daughters is ‘prayer’. Let your daughter know prayer is powerful. Train them to believe in prayer as the most powerful tool to solve any problem. No doubt, religion is the background of everything.
With the points analyzed above, I think something good can be done to minimize this menace in the society. As a parent, ask yourself today what legacy do you want to leave behind for your daughter? Will your daughter be happy in future if she remembers the way you maltreated her and denied her the opportunity to be one of the successful leaders of the world? Being poor shouldn’t be an excuse at all if I am not wrong majority of our leaders who ruled and still ruling this country even the world is from a poor home.
Coming from poor home doesn’t stop you from achieving your dream my dear sister. Think twice, change your mindset this is not civilization it is called madness of the highest order. It is high-time you stopped living the way white men are living. God created each race with ways each race will be living so, don’t change what God has given to you.
In conclusion, it is crystal clear the society is facing many challenges. Aside from the challenges facing the government we as citizens also compound and contribute to the complex world we are living. Parents are the solid pillar to change the society to better. Home is the primary agent of change. Home is the primary and source of a solution of any society. When the home we see as the solution to any problem is now the problem then where to go to seek the solution to save the world. I believe if our homes can solve some challenges facing the society the government will even have a little thing to face.
I urge you dear parents; you are the only solution to the society’s problem. Give our daughters required, necessary and qualitative teachings to make them relevant and be solution providers rather than problems to be solved in the society. These female children are potential parents of tomorrow if they are being trained no doubt they will also be good and potential home builders contributing immensely to the development of the society.
Ask yourself, where are the potential women leaders of this society if things still remain as it is
now? I believe we can have a better society, cultured society and great women leaders from this blessed country if necessary cautions are not thrown into the wind and a halt is put to our lackadaisical attitude about the affairs of these young to grow women leader and future mother.

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Saminu Abass Ola who is popularly called ‘Mr. Possible‘ is a young motivational and inspirational speaker and writer, who is also the brain behind this wonderful blog. He is also passionate about Social Marketing. He believes in the abilities of others and tends to bring out the hidden potentials in people’s lives through his motivational articles and words of inspiration.

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5 Disney OSTs You Should Listen To When Everything Looks Bleak

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Disney is one of the most popular media and Entertainment Company in the world. Producing one of the best movies and songs for people all over the world, it creates a great impact on their lives. But, how does Disney Original Sound Tracks (OSTs) affect you, you ask?

Music, in general, is one of the factors that affect our behaviors the most without us knowing it. Also, it has the ability to make us perceive things in a whole new way. For example, a study shows that a happy or sad music can alter how people see neutral faces. Though another study reveals that people listening to uplifting music tend to affect their helping behavior.

Unlike other genres, Disney music can give you the uplifting encouragement that you need when life looks bleak. Here are some of the songs that you might want to listen to:

1. Lion King- Hakuna Matata: Sing Along For A Problem-Free Life

“Hakuna Matata

What a wonderful phrase

Hakuna Matata

Ain’t no passing craze

It means no worries

For the rest of your days

It’s our problem-free philosophy

Hakuna Matata”

In the movie, Timon and Pumba sing it for Simba to cheer him up and encourage him to stop worrying about the past and live in the present instead. Nonetheless, the song can be applied to any problems that need some positivity.

Hakuna Matata is derived from a Swahili phrase from Kenya. It is formed by the words Hakuna that mean “there is not here” and Matata, which means the plural form of problem. The song promotes a positive outlook. And life is too short for you to be wallowing in worries and this song teaches you that.

2. The Princess And The Frog- Almost There: Never Give Up And Keep Going

“There’s been trials and tribulations

You know I’ve had my share

But I’ve climbed the mountain, I’ve crossed the river

And I’m almost there, I’m almost there

I’m almost there!”

There is always a time when you think you’ve come so near yet so far. May it be your efforts to reach the top at work, a progressing relationship with your family or with your partner. There are times when you think you’re not progressing at all and the thought of giving up is so tempting.

However, with this song, you can see that everyone experiences different trials and challenges in their paths towards their goals. Furthermore, you’re not alone in facing them. Whatever you may think, know that you are almost there and don’t let your past efforts go in vain by giving up.

3. The Road To El Dorado- The Trail We Blaze: Be Brave To Set Your Own Path

“Look out new world here we come

Brave, intrepid and then some

Pioneers of maximum

Audacity whose resumes

Show that we are just the team

To live where others merely dream

Building up a head of steam

On the trail we blaze”

Life is an adventure and each one of us has a blank map. Would you rather follow the worn out path that many people have traveled on or  go and take a chance of discovering new land by yourself?

The Trail We Blaze encourages you to be brave and go on a path that is unique and makes you happy, not the path others took just so you can fit in. Harness your strength and set off on your journey in life. Be yourself, be true and be unique. Also, let the song give you strength to make your own trail to blaze.

4. Hercules- Go The Distance: Believe In Yourself To Reach Your Goals

“I am on my way

I can go the distance

And, I don’t care how far

Somehow I’ll be strong

I know every mile will be worth my while

I would go most anywhere to find where I belong”

Go The Distance tells you that no matter how far and how difficult it is to achieve your goals, as long as you want it with all your heart, you can reach it. You just have to believe in yourself. The hardships and the long wait won’t be a bother to you as long as you have your eyes on the prize.

When you feel discouraged or be sad because of failure, let this song pump up some motivational power in you. You don’t care how far you will have to go because you know, deep down, that you are strong and you can go the distance. You just have to believe.

5. Jungle Book- Bare Necessities: Simple Life Is Stress-Free Life

“Look for the bare necessities

The simple bare necessities

Forget about your worries and your strife

I mean the bare necessities

Old Mother Nature’s recipes

That bring the bare necessities of life”

Bare necessities promote thoughts of a simple life and the happiness that comes with it. Without work, relationships, money, and responsibilities that make it complicated, life is really simple. Take a breath and relax for a moment and lose yourself in life even for just a moment.

“And don’t spend your time lookin’ around

For something you want that can’t be found

When you find out you can live without it

And go along not thinkin’ about it

I’ll tell you something true

The bare necessities of life will come to you”

Sometimes, what makes your life more complicated is your “wants”. With it, you tend to indulge yourself with things that you want but you don’t need. This results to regret and problems—especially with money—in the long run. This part of the song encourages you to be content with what you have.

Don’t trouble yourself with things that you want but you can’t have. When you even get to live alright without it, then you don’t really need it. And let the happiness of having the bare necessities come to you.

Conclusion

“When you’re happy. You enjoy the music, but when you’re sad. You understand the lyrics.”

Disney is more than just an American film production that produces animated and live-action movies for kids and adults to enjoy.

Disney movies and songs promote positivity in a simple yet enjoyable way. This way, it is easier for the message to reach you and helping you attain a positive mental attitude. This attitude will aid you in your time of despair and need.

Moreover, not only does Disney contribute heartwarming and inspirational movies for both old and young, the music that Disney produces for their movies are also making a big difference in how people think and feel. This differences can make them take one day at a time with a smile on their faces.

Author’s Bio:

Kristine Ramos is an editor and a health and wellness enthusiast. She loves reading and writing is her passion. Also, she is a blogger by day and a gamer by night. She adores animals and if she isn’t reading or writing, she draws or plays video games. She mostly spends her time lounging around and reading a good book.

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One of the things you are going to understand is that you are supposed to fail. You are supposed to fail because failure is the stepping stone to success. You need the logical reason why failure is an experience that leads to the wisdom that ultimately makes you a stronger version of yourself.

Maybe you got a test anxiety I don’t know, but the worst thing you can do is quit.  Talk to your professor.  I’m not a hundred percent sure but I know that you cannot stop just because you failed doesn’t make you a failure.

Another cliche story was about Thomas Edison right when a reporter asked him you know what it is, how did you feel about failing a thousand times.  He said no, I didn’t fail a thousand times I just found a thousand different ways that it wasn’t going to work. That’s what’s happening with you.

However, every time he found a way that didn’t work he was adding to his journey. He was growing stronger, he learned something, discovered something, you’re discovering something by yourself, and you’re exercising your character every time you get up and try something.

Move in the direction of something, even if you don’t get the thing. Moreover, it is not about the thing. It’s not about making a million dollars. It’s about what you learn along the way and who you become along the way. You are on the journey, and you guess what the journey is hard. The journey is riddled with failure, and that’s why most people don’t do it. Most people aren’t willing to get on that journey because they are afraid to fail. You have failed on something, congratulations it’s the greatest thing that ever happened to you. This is because it shows that you’re alive. It shows that you did something and it shows that you are growing stronger.

Now, go and fail again. I hope you that are reading this post that you are going to fail a thousand times. Keep going out there and failing you know what that means every time you fail. It means a lot; it tells you that you’re doing something.  I have seen a lot of people because they don’t want to make any mistakes. It takes us to the next level.  A lot of people don’t want to fail, they fear failure, fear of success and guess what else fear of the unknown.

You know Winston Churchill said about courage that, is that courage is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.  So you want to hold onto your dream and not lose passion courageously.  A guy in Los Angeles all over the front page of the newspaper, he just passed the bar after taking it 48 times.

Furthermore, he had more than enough reasons and excuses not to make it.  His son has a law firm, he could have been a legal assistant, a clerk, and people all of a sudden used to laugh at this guy. He was a laughingstock, and people will do that to you. You know people talk about John Kennedy Jr. failing the bar. Did you read in the newspaper that he passed? I didn’t see that but did they make as big of a deal about him moving as they did when he failed? No, you know why people like to see you fail.

They love to look at that; it’s, people are like that.  I don’t understand why it’s set up like that.  I was on the expressway, traffic was jammed up, you know what was happening, it was an accident, but people pulled over to the side to get out of their car to go and look. No doubt, to see somebody else’s suffering.  That’s why talk shows are so popular.  Some people like to hear other people’s misery, they get all caught up in that, and then they magnify it in their own life because that’s all they focus on.

Who decided it doesn’t matter how many times I fail, I’m going to pursue it courageously. I don’t care what people say, and I don’t care what they think. This is something that I want that gives my life meaning and value.  If you regularly remind yourself after every defeat, after every setback, every time you get knocked down, I have got a saying, if life knocks you down try and land on your back because if you can look up, you can get up.

CONCLUSION

I have seen a lot of people because of failure they stop; they stop believing let me share something with you.  You will fail your way to success, yes, eight out of ten millionaires have been financially bankrupt.  You will fail your way to success; it doesn’t matter how many times you fail. Also, it doesn’t matter how many times people tell you that you can’t do it. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have a dime in the bank.  You will fail your way to success.

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3 Perfect Way to Build Empathy as a Good Leader

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A leader learns from the mistakes or challenges he has overcome. It seems challenging and frustrating when you feel you are bad at doing a task. It is essential not get frustrated but focusing and for you to do things that you are bad at.

You learn from mistakes and move forward. You become a better person when you are not afraid to make mistakes. Empathy is the ability to understand another’s perspective, even if that perspective is very different from yourself.

The first reason why it is good to do something that you are really bad at is that you learn a lot from it. You learn about yourself, you learn about your limitations, you learn about how to stretch beyond your limitations. Nobody is perfect, therefore, to improve yourself you need to start focusing on your weakness.

However, the second reason for doing something you are bad at is that it forces you to get out of your comfort zone. Moreover, it is said that being in your comfort zone makes you feel relaxed. The much time you spend out of your comfort zone, the more you can achieve any objective. The more you stay in your comfort zone, the less you can achieve your goals and make a milestone. You need to know that nobody can accomplish anything new without getting out of the comfort zones.

The last reason that it is good to do things you’re terrible at. I think this is important if you are any leader or if you are running a business. Also, it is essential for you if you are a manager or you have people working for you. It teaches you what it’s like to try to do things you’re bad at. You will have employees who are struggling with tasks that seemed very, very simple and elementary to you and you might stand there thinking. What is wrong with this person? Why can’t he do this simple thing that I could do in my sleep? If you have an analogy in your head that you can compare it to, you will have some context for understanding how it can sometimes be challenging to do things that might seem simple.

CONCLUSION

So next time you come across something that you are bad at, go out there, give it your best, make a fool of yourself. Learn from the mistakes by doing what you are bad at and keep improving every day. A leader develops himself on a daily basis by working by working on the weakness and limitations.

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Failure is daunting and devastating. In reality, nobody wants to fail. But let’s see it; failure is a part of life. Whether you are rich or poor, intelligent or not; At some point in your life, you must experience problems that subtract you. This leaves us without the choice but to overcome such mistakes.

In essence, if you ask a successful person if it’s right, they will respond quickly, yes! Because in real terms, if you respond positively to your mistakes and eliminate negative perceptions about them, you are stronger than you were initially. For this reason, I have compiled a list of 10 most inspiring quotes in overcoming failure.

  1. “Most prominent and prosperous people have achieved their greatest success, but one step beyond their biggest failure.” (Napoleon Hill)

In essence, success can be just for your mistakes. So, if you enter early, you can just miss it by just one step. Patience and perseverance are necessary to overcome failure.

2.  “Never worry about mistakes, worry about the opportunities you miss if you do not even try.” (Jack canfield)

In principle, instead of concentrating on your mistakes or how you might fail if you tried something; why do not you focus on the odds you would get by trying?

3. “Do not allow you to persuade you if your determination to succeed is strong enough.” (And Mandino)

This means that if you’re more determined to succeed, you will not allow to pick you up or tear you up.

4. “Failure is the only key to success; every mistake teaches us something new.” (Morihei Ueshiba)

In essence, the road to success is never smooth. In fact, you can never succeed unless you accept positively.

5. “If you learn from failure and defeat, you are not lost.” (Zig Ziglar)

In general, failure teaches us something new. If you take this positive and learn something, then you are sure to succeed instead of failing.

6. “Develop your success through your mistakes. Discouragement and failure are two of the safest steps to your success.” (Dale Carnegie)

Never expect to be successful without having a rough time. In the real world, it should never happen. If you are willing to climb higher, you must accept to start from below.

7. “We sometimes lose seizure so we can find new ways to win.” (Donald Trump)

In essence, you need to learn a new way to overcome or avoid similar failures in the future.

 

8. “Life is unsuccessful all the time. It happens every day in practice. What makes you better and stronger is how you respond.” (Mia Hamm)

You must be willing to accept mistakes. However, you must be well prepared to handle such difficult situations.

9. “Success is always achieved by those who do not know failure is inevitable.” (Coco Chanel)

Successful people recognize that failures are part of life and must happen at some point in your life. How to handle mistakes when it occurs is most important.

 

10. “We learn and get the wisdom of failures far beyond success. We usually discover what we will do by discovering what we will not do.” (Samuel Smiles)

In fact, mistakes give us more wisdom, especially if you learn how to overcome such a failure.

 

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You Should Create a Structure to Finish What You Have Started

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It is not surprising to see people starting a number of projects and efforts in life. While even more uncommon to see them hanging up their motivation and hard work to complete what they started. In short, around 22% of people in US, UK, and Australia have been declared as intense procrastinators falling under distractions, anxiety or any other reason. And a staggering 70% of the students admit having difficulty in completing their academic commitments within the time given.

The real problem lies in the motivation and dedication we employ in our tasks. Despite the level of difficulty, a human being has ample power to counter the procrastination issues and turn around to finish what we have started.

As for this blog, we’re going to talk about the introductory aspect, creating a structure to help you finish what has been started. They are all sources of motivation to get started.

  1. Define a deadline

Having a defined due date enhances the chances of completing your task and eliminating procrastination, especially when the deadline is set by someone else.

  • When we have pre-set deadline, we should keep reminding ourselves the reason for keeping the deadline and realize the consequences of not completing the task within the date. It’s better to write the deadline in a prominent area in your room or at a calendar.
  • In case you don’t have a predefined deadline, set one on your own accord. However, you might need to identify the things not available beforehand. See how long it will take you to complete the task, as well as allow yourself sufficient time to complete the job without inviting unnecessary stress.
  • You must have broken the project into manageable chunks, and now you’ll set a deadline for each. The point is to keep you on track as your progress in your task. Consider the example of completing an academic assignment within a month. Here you can break down your project and set the deadline for each segment. For example, the time is taken for conducting research, creating the outline, writing an introduction, etc.
  • Make it a habit to glance at the calendar every now and then. As it is very easy to get lost in unwanted distractions and temptations. Further, you can remind yourself the severity of the deadline by telling yourself. For example, “The effects of not completing this research paper will be dreadful”.
  1. Create a to-do list

Having a step by step to-do list is a great help. Especially when we talk about particularly long and complex projects. The point is to divide the sections of your project on a weekly, monthly and yearly basis. This will also free you from the stress of completing a monstrous task in the first go.

  • For example, if you were to write a 10,000-word long research paper, quite a task you have and practically impossible to complete in a single go, but you can start by targeting around 200 to 300 words per day. This is how you get the work done in a systematic process.
  • Pen down everything you need to complete the project. Consider an academic assignment again, here you are required to do the necessary research, write down the paper, create an attractive PowerPoint presentation, write and practice your speech as thoroughly as possible. Albeit, each of the individual items will require a sub-list, but be sure to stay comprehensive.
  1. Prioritization

Prioritization is one of the most vital aspects required when it comes to accomplishing the completion of any project successfully. This is why it is highly advised to master the art of prioritization if you are to taste success in any work.

  • The whole idea of prioritizing is after creating the to-do list, select the part which carries the most importance. For example, gathering the relevant facts and figures in a history assignment might be the essential part.
  • Perhaps, you won’t be required to focus on some parts at the moment. For example in a group-based project, you’re required to conduct the research on a particularly complex topic that have lost your interest. Never forcefully tempt yourself to do things that can result in negative results. For instance, boredom, time wastage, etc. rather than positive outcomes. The point is to emphasize on things that come with the prime purpose, instead of prioritizing things other than academics.
  1. Create a schedule and practice time management

It has been evidently suggested that creating a schedule helps you in carrying out things in a seamless manner. The idea is to provide each item on your to-do list a considerable list for completion.

  • You can create and keep a personal calendar highlighting the things required to be done to accomplish your grand goal. If you’re to complete a thing within the assigned day. Don’t panic and try to incorporate the task in the next day’s schedule.

Final Thoughts

Time management and the need to cater a project-in-hand is irreplaceable, irrespective of the industry you’re working in. Several industry experts, professional assignment help providers, motivation speakers, and other market elites have mandated the structuring of any project as one of the vital aspects of business growth. While incorporating the above pointers is only going to make you the next big “Project Lead” in your company.

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