Whatever the situation, whenever you are faced with the problem, there are two (2) things involved. The victims of the problem and the problem itself.
Looking yourself as the victim of your problem makes it difficult and compound the situation to the extent that solutions are nowhere to be found to solve these challenges. You lose the power to conquer challenges when seeing yourself as the problem. However, when you see yourself as the problem and say to yourself ‘I am the problem’. Then I see a big potential and insight power to solve the problem.
Those who think and take themselves as victims of their challenges always blame others for their flaws and errors. If they are not happy, it is someone else’s fault. Even if they are sick it is someone else’s fault. They forget the key solution to the problem that they are the problems.