How To Get Your Man So Committed To You

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There are many tricks to implore in order for a man to fall for you. But the truth here is that most women do not make use of some of these tricks effectively well.
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Most relationship doesn’t go further because of little mistakes that women make. Its one thing to have a man love you on a first date and another thing to have him keep his love for you. What you do can make or break a relationship.

[Related article] 8 Qualities Men Desire in Women

On a first date, a man tends to love the woman but how far can this love go? It all depends on the woman.

Remember, a little mistake can sabotage the love but a little correction can keep the love burning.

Sincerely speaking, every woman wants to have a man that forever loves, but some women do take the wrong step which in the long run leaves them heart-broken and emotionally depressed.

On the other side, you have gotten the man and you know it, but the problem right now is how to get that man to show his full commitment and love to you.

I know very well that you want him to put that golden ring in your finger but not all men do that so easily. Men are always calculative and thoughtful and wouldn’t want to spend the rest of their life with a woman they don’t really love.

For a man to walk you down the altar and kiss your lips before the congregation you must have done something and that is what? Win his heart. And how do I win his heart?

Well, if you are among the category of women seeking for a way to capture and win your man’s heart, then this article is just for you.

Before reading further, you might want to have a look at my previous article 8 Qualities Men Desire in women.

1. Be your Real Self


The biggest mistake women make is putting on a copy of what they are not. You watch those female celebrities on television, the way they dress and twist their hips while walking and men are lusting after them. And you think doing the same thing will cause your man to love you? No, he will only lust after you and not love you. Don’t wear a fake masque hoping that your man will love you. That love won’t last the next day.

Have you ever thought if how the reaction of the man would be when he comes to find out that all along the line you’ve been putting on a fake identity? The man won’t forgive you and even if he does, that relationship will in no time go down the drain.

A man would appreciate a woman that comes as she is. Be real and you would definitely win your man’s heart.

2. Set a Standard

Having a limit to what you do in a relationship is good especially as a woman. Some women think that a man would love them if they cater to every needs of the man. The fact that you want him to love you does not mean that you have to place yourself in a position that symbolizes that he is your all in anticipation.

Also, men don’t think more of women who are ready to jump into the bed with them on a first date. So, set a good standard for yourself. Don’t be too emotionally dependent on the man; you can decide to be happy even without the man.

Don’t let the man trample upon your decisions all because you want him to wed you. If he treats you in a way that is not appealing to you, let him know that.

For you to gain his love completely, stand up for the standard you have set, you know why? If a man knows that he is always getting away with anything he wants and you have no say, I tell you, you will no longer be valuable in his sight. He would always want to take advantage of your stupidity because he knows full well that you have no set down principles. He is not going to love you that way.

So, for your man to walk you down the altar as a result of his love for you, learn to set a standard and if he tries going against your decisions, tell it to his face.

3. Don’t force him


Forcing or pushing a man to love you is completely wrong. If I don’t love you, I can’t possibly do, no matter how much force you apply. It will only get worse when you try pushing a man to take you to the altar and wed you. If your man truly loves you, he will surely put a ring on your finger, so don’t force him. Every man expects that day to come when he can show the world his new bride.

Forcing him, shows that you are desperate and trust me, men don’t truly love desperate women.

Give your man some space, withdraw yourself a little and don’t force yourself on him.

I know that you might be thinking, ‘what if he is not ready to take me to the altar? I guess I just have to force myself on him lest I lose him’. Yes! You are right to think that way. But that is the thought of fear and if you are fearful of losing the man, that shows you are desperate.

If a man sees you not too desperate, he will come whole heartedly for you. Learn to be vulnerable; even if the relationship comes to an end, you can still be happy.

A man is more likely to marry a woman whom he is more comfortable with than a woman who is always forcing herself on him.

4.  Be loving

For a relationship to keep going and eventually lead to marriage, both parties must be caring, kind, affectionate and loving. So, it’s not the duty of one person to be showing forth the love. How do you expect your man to put a ring on your finger when you are not showing him how much you do love him? It doesn’t work that way. Am not saying that you have to force yourself on him, but from time to time, take your time to know how he is doing. Ask him how his day was. As he speaks, listen to him and you can also encourage him when he is down. That is love.

You should also know the food your man likes best, prepare it for him and serve him in a more romantic style.

For you to be loved, you must have to show it.

But there is a problem! If you are faking your love, he will know, so be real in whatever you do except you don’t want that long awaited ring on your finger. And am sure you do want it.

Wow! It’s quite a long article indeed. But I guess it’s indeed helpful. Isn’t it?

Have I missed something? Please kindly drop it using the comment box and don’t forget that sharing is caring.

I want to thank the inspiring maker of SABTrends for yet another opportunity to share my idea on his blog.

If you have not read my previous article titled ‘8 Qualities men desire in women’ go and read it now.

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39 Comments

  1. Gigi M says

    I agree that you should be your true self. If he doesn't like you as you are, he probably isn't your forever after.

    1. SABTrends says

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  2. harrison oliaku says

    Yes you are right Gigi.
    If you are your real self, it's good…but if you man dont still love you the way you are, you just have to find a way and end that relationship…he doesn't love you.

    1. SABTrends says

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  3. Bhushavali N says

    Important points. And the same are applicable for men too!

    1. SABTrends says

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  4. Elizabeth O. says

    It's definitely important to be yourself and if he doesn't accept that then you don't really need to force it and make more effort for him to stay. I don't think it's just a woman's job to make her partner stay committed to her, they should both work for it.

    1. SABTrends says

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  5. Fred Hawson says

    These are true for both men and women when deciding on commitments in relationships. These should definitely not be forced on anybody. Being your true self may not really be seen immediately though. You need to live together for sometime before you see someone's "true self."

    1. SABTrends says

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  6. Amanda Love says

    Relationships can be a challenge but it's important to stay true to yourself and your partner. One more thing is to have mutual respect for one another. These are very good pointers, women must also never settle. But regardless of the gender, it's important to put effort into the relationship if you want to make it work.

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  7. Rochkirstin Santos says

    This is one of the most talked about topics when it comes to relationships. Setting a high standard but then loving the person is quite hard but this goes with experience.

    1. SABTrends says

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  8. Debarpan says

    All those 4 points you mentioned here are absolutely true,every woman must follow these rules to to maintain a healthy relationship with their men.I strongly agree.

    1. SABTrends says

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  9. lee rosales says

    a man can only be committed to someone if he is ready. a girl can be the perfect girlfriend but if the man is not ready then its just useless having all the qualities of a man that is looking for a woman

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  10. Anne V says

    I love number 1, staying true to who you are is key in any relationship. Pretending is never good in any case.

    1. SABTrends says

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  11. Fernando Lachica says

    Really, a good post for relationship; men and women. Relationship is a very delicate matter to tackle both the man and woman. But if the agreement will prosper, it'll be the turning point for their lives.

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  12. Rebecca Laurel says

    Takes 2 hands to clap so it applies to both men and women. Very good points! First thing in a relationship is definitely to be your real self right from the start.. If you start being yourself only when you're deeper and longer into the relationship, things will definitely go haywire and things will get more difficult. Thanks for sharing!

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  13. Franc says

    I think it's important to be true to one self and let it flow naturally. It helps to keep things a lot more interesting.

    1. SABTrends says

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  14. ® says

    In any relationship, both people need to stay committed. I couldn't stress enough on the importance of being honest and being yourself from the beginning. Affection and understanding are also important. – RUSS

    1. SABTrends says

      Welcome ®.

      You also made a very very good point. It is a pleasure having you on SABTrends Blog .

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    1. SABTrends says

      Welcome RainbowDiaries Singapore. You made a very good point. It is a pleasure having you on SABTrends Blog .

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  15. harrison oliaku says

    In as much as the women are trying hard to keep a relationship going well, the men also are not exempted from these tasks aw well.

    Both parties need to work with one mind so as to achieve better results in the relationship.

    Thanks for all your comments.

    1. SABTrends says

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  16. Tiffany Yong W.T. says

    I don't think the title fits the content. It's more like, how to find the right guy rather than a man to commit. You can't "get" or "force" someone to be committed if he is not someone who commit in the first place.

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  17. Zwitsy says

    Well, whatever you do if a man doesn't love you, it is still useless. If a man truly loves you, no matter what you do, everything that you do for him will be appreciated. Unlike a man who doesn't love you, no matter how hard you do, for him, it's nothing. So why bother? If you think the man you are falling in love doesn't show any interest, why risk?

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  18. Sunshine Kelly says

    Wow this is great! I will take note on that and thanks for sharing these tips.

  19. SABTrends says

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