What Can Influence Your Self Improvement?
What comes in your mind after reading the title ‘Self Improvement’ ? Yes, the word automatically leads our mind to think about self, to think about our mistakes or the lacks I’m ourselves. And similarly the thought of how to overcome these mistakes and lacks. Which kinds of lacks we find in ourselves? It depends. Different age groups and different people have different lacks. Like students need to improve their studying skills, handwriting etc. , housewives need to improve their cooking, businessmen need to improve their business etc.etc. In short everyone needs to and wants to improve their nature and skills.
What makes us to come to know that we are not perfect or we need to improve ourselves? No one is born perfect, but born to be perfect. In some points in our lives, at our workplace, we get jealous of others or the insult done by others makes us to think about improvement. When someone’s insulting words touch to our subconscious, they pin down our minds to do more hard work to take ourselves on that point where we want to see ourselves. Insulting words are the biggest factors which motivates us to self improvement.
What is Self Improvement?
A short definition I want to tell you here, according to me, ” Self Improvement is a process, in which we take ourselves from zero to the point where we want to see ourselves with some good habits. “
So, here I am going to tell you eight (8) powerful ways to improve yourself:-
Practice makes a man perfect. Also, practice is the base of everything best. If you want to take our work on the highest level so you need regular practice.
Reading is a very good habit. In addition, reading books of motivational writers. This kinds of book will not let your confidence decrease. You can read story books too. This helps you in enhance your vocabulary and improve your speaking skills. Books can be your best friends too, they will never let you feel alone.
Be A Listener:
Nobody knows everything, but everybody knows something. So listen every person who meets you in life. Listen carefully, may be you get something very important. A good listener can also be a good speaker.
Surround yourself with positive people:
Live with people who have positive thinking. They will motivate you and will never let you go negative.But don’t avoid negativity:Don’t totally avoid negative thoughts and negative people. Let negative people do their work, like they will insult you. But negativity helps us to change ourselves.
Meet new people everyday. Talk to them, know them, absorb them and adapt good habits and skills from them.
Create an inspirational atmosphere:
The place where you stay, make that place totally inspirational to you. An ideal room- like you can put good books there, write motivational thoughts on wall or you can write your ultimate goal. Your environment sets your mood. So always stay in an inspired environment.
Meditation makes your mind calm. It also increase your concentration power. Which helps you to work continuously and it will automatically improve your skills.
Pick up good habits and throw out bad: If you have bad habits like waking up late, biting nails etc. So throw them out and pick up good habits like waking up early, exercise, meditation etc.
Set a daily goal: Set a goal for your everyday’s life. Make a list for everyday’s important work and set it as a goal. It will improve your working spread and also manage free time for self.
Commit with yourself:
The biggest commitment is the commitment done by self. Stay happy in every condition. Deal with opposite conditions. Keep a huge smile on your face in every situation and meet everyone with smile and positivity.
So good luck, keep learning and keep improving yourself, because no-one born perfect, but everyone born to be perfect.